Using Self-Competition for Personal Growth

Ever feel like you’ve fallen behind in life? (Here's how I stopped caring about what others are doing) We’re often told where we “should be” in life. A point of measurement set by our: - Friends - Family - Significant others The expectations can make anyone feel overwhelmed. But what if you stopped measuring your worth off of other success? Here’s 3 benefits I’ve found to competing only with myself: — — — — — Benefit 1: Progress feels meaningful Comparison to others is a lose-lose. You’re either better (and become complacent) Or worse (and never good enough) Remind yourself that: ➜ You can’t measure progress off of others. ➜ We all move at different speeds. ➜ There will always be someone “better”. Focusing on yourself allows for true measurement. You know the good days and the bad. Where you started and where you are now. Improvement is much easier when you have the full picture. — — — — — Benefit 2: Greater satisfaction with life From a young age we’re conditioned to compare. We’re taught that some labels are “better” than others. You need to be: - Rich - Famous - Beautiful - Smart - Successful But is that the only way? Self comparison allows you to be: 1. Free from factors outside your control. 2. Free from social pressure. 3. Free to enjoy where you are now. Learn to appreciate the progress you’ve made. Never compare your start, to someone else’s end. — — — — — Benefit 3: Stronger Relationships Comparing to others limits our ability to build relationships. It causes us to put up barriers to defend against other’s success. You cannot be yourself if you’re always wearing this mask. Relationships will get stronger if you: ➜ Take advice without expectation. ➜ Support other’s goals without jealousy. ➜ Be truly happy for others success. When you genuinely care for others. You’ll find that relationships come easy. Life doesn’t have to be an endless competition. — — — — — Thanks for reading and happy Monday everyone! 📌 Want to see more content like this? 1). Follow me (Sam Sheridan) for career advice you can actually use. 2). Drop a like and a comment below to keep the discussion going. ♻️ Find this useful? Repost to help your network out too.

You're not winning because your focus is in the wrong place. You're focusing on the person who's on their... • Second exit • Third round of funding • Fourth promotion You feel like you're losing. Constantly consuming others' success stories will drown out your own chances of winning. While their wins fill up your feed, your potential goes untapped. You feel like you're not measuring up. But, their accomplishments can't be defining your metrics for success. Your focus needs to turn inward, to the only competition that really matters - yourself. Here's the actual winning formula. A. Stop comparing yourself to others. B. Start comparing yourself to your potential. C. Potential = the gap between where you are and where you could be. Here's how you execute. Rule One: Eyes Forward Your journey isn't about one-upping others. It's about carving a unique path fueled by your untapped potential. What we're talking about is a shift - from competition to an inward journey scaling your capabilities. Tool One: Build Your Internal Compass • Self-reflect regularly to evaluate your path • Assess feedback through your goals' lens • Seek mentors who push you to realize your strengths Rule Two: Question Everything • Dive deeper. Find unexplored undercurrents • Develop a perpetually curious mindset • Invest in personal R&D, engage with diverse thinkers, increase learning agility Rule Three: Craft Your Authentic Narrative • Use storytelling to share your authentic journey • Be real in both your victories and struggles • Invest in personal development This isn't about being the next 'somebody'. It's about becoming the unprecedented 'you' - delving into your potential's rich mines and coming out with gems uniquely yours. Your true competition is your untapped potential. Unleash it.

"The only comparison worth making is to yourself from yesterday" We've all been there. Scrolling through social media, seeing someone's achievement, and feeling a pang of inadequacy. The comparison trap is a constant threat, especially early in our careers: - One person made a killing last year. - Another's a rising star, recognized by Forbes. - It seems like everyone else is winning. It's natural to compare ourselves, but it's a dangerous game. Here's the truth: you're likely comparing your Chapter 1 to someone else's epic finale. They've put in the years, the work, the failures that led to their success. Focus on your own story Instead of getting sucked into the comparison vortex, turn your attention inward. Ask yourself these powerful questions: What knowledge have I gained? Growth thrives on learning. Reflect on the new skills you've acquired, the information you've absorbed, and how they've shaped your perspective. What perspectives have I shifted? Growth often involves evolving your thinking. Acknowledge areas where your views have changed and celebrate the flexibility that allows you to learn and adapt. How have I grown? Growth isn't always a straight line. Take stock of your personal development, whether it's becoming more confident, building better habits, or simply feeling more comfortable in your own skin. What positive impact have I made? Contributing to something bigger is a fulfilling part of growth. Reflect on how you've used your skills and knowledge to make a difference for others. By focusing on these internal questions, you shift your focus from external validation to internal progress. This empowers you to take ownership of your journey and celebrate your unique path to success. Your only competition is yourself Life isn't a race against others. It's about becoming a better version of yourself each day. Focus on what you can control: your effort, your attitude, and your commitment to continuous improvement. Embrace the journey, celebrate your wins (big and small), and learn from your setbacks. By looking inward and focusing on your own growth, you'll find the motivation and fulfillment that comes from steady, sustainable progress. Ready to learn more? Share this post with others and follow me, Addy Osmani, for more insights in the future. Illustrated by Michael J Boorman - definitely worth a follow-up! #motivation #productivity #growth

People often ask me about my daily ritual, and I'm happy to share with you all that it's called the Core 4. This system has been an integral part of my life for over a decade, emphasizing the balance of body, mind, and business. It involves working on my physical health, meditating, reaching out to two people every day, and refining my business plan. I firmly believe that while abilities are divinely given, putting in the effort is equally important. In the realm of competition, the only person you're competing against is yourself. My measure of success is solely against my own potential, not external factors or others' perceptions. I diligently track my progress every day without fail, and I can attest that this practice has helped me grow immensely. It's not just a fleeting aspect of my life; it's a discipline that has shaped me into who I am today. So, if you're looking to improve yourself and reach your full potential, consider implementing the Core 4 into your daily routine. Remember, the only competition that matters is You Vs You.