Personalizing Remote Onboarding Experiences

I’ve onboarded remote hires across time zones, continents, and cultures. And here’s what I’ve learned: Remote onboarding doesn’t ⭐fail⭐ because of location. It fails because of assumptions. Assuming someone will “just speak up.” Assuming they’ll know what success looks like. Assuming they feel like they belong. Without hallway chats or shadowing, remote employees miss all the informal context that makes onboarding feel human—not just functional. Here’s how I’ve made it work: 💬 Over-communicate expectations and priorities 🎥 Use video, even for 15-minute check-ins 📅 Create a rhythm of connection—1:1s, team intros, buddy syncs ☕ Encourage informal conversations (yes, even virtual coffee chats) Remote doesn’t have to mean disconnected. In fact, with the right systems, it can feel even more inclusive. It took me many years of learning the hard way to build this out. And I’d like to share it with you, no strings attached. (see link in comments) That’s why I built these practices right in our Manager Onboarding Kit—to help leaders support their teams with intention, no matter where they are.

My remote hires (probably) ramp faster than yours. Here's why: Most remote onboarding means a calendar packed with Zoom meetings and endless Slacks from strangers. No real connection. No clear priorities. No clue how tall anyone actually is. It can feel isolating, especially when you’re new and eager to prove yourself. That’s why I take a different approach at UserEvidence. I meet every new hire in person during their first week. Wherever they live, on their home turf. Every time, it leads to the same outcome: faster ramp-up, stronger confidence, and immediate momentum. I’ve improved this process three times now, cutting out fluff and getting feedback from every person to make it even better for the next hire. They each get a beast of a Notion page that covers: - Key people to meet (and why those meetings matter) - Important docs and links to review right away - A roadmap for their first 30, 60, and 90 days, clearly outlining expectations and where I need them to take ownership From day one, new hires have full visibility into what's working, what's not, and where our biggest opportunities lie. They don't have to hunt for information, either. It’s all there for them: board decks, old marketing roadmaps, past OKRs, and a clear breakdown of the agencies and freelancers we partner with (plus their “superpowers” and how to best work with them). By the end of week one, we’ve already had honest and vulnerable conversations about: - How we can best work together  - Our working styles and weird work quirks to be aware of (we all have them) - What success looks like in their role - Where they want to grow and how I can help We also make time for fun and get to know each other outside of work. Like our upbringing, favorite life stories, and who we are as humans. Work matters, but who you work with matters even more. Building trust right out of the gate makes everything easier.

Starting a new job while remote can suck. Imagine your first day: You get your laptop and login info. Set up all the software and benefits. Lovely HR folks onboard you but it’s all going through the process. You don’t actually meet your teammates though or learn about your work until later. That would feel kinda lonely, eh? 😔 Imagine a different first day: 👋Your manager posted an intro message in the company new hires channel (at Slack, we call this #yay). 📮People from different teams message you offering to chat or welcoming you to the company! ☕️You have virtual coffee invites already. I joined Slack in April 2020. Remote. Didn’t meet anyone IRL for over a year! Yet, I felt welcome and included because Slack’s leadership is very intentional about curating the culture (David Ard Robby Kwok would directly welcome people!) People from across the company DMed me. To my slack colleagues reading this, this might feel obvious. However, a lot of companies are still figuring out hybrid culture - across time zones, cultures and borders 🌎🌏🌍 Today, I try to carry on the torch. Every Monday, I message the new hires in our #yay channel. On lighter weeks, I do 15 min coffee chats. For the ones in NYC, we coordinate office days. We might be in completely different parts of the company and never work together, but that’s also an opportunity to learn something new. It might be just one message or meeting for you, but it can make a HUGE difference in someone’s onboarding experience. So, carry the torch - go make someone’s first day amazing 🔥