How to Build Two-Way Team Communication for Managers

One of the hardest lessons to learn as a manager: When someone on your team comes to you with a concern, your main job isn’t to solve the problem. It’s to show them they were right to bring it to you. You can accomplish that in various ways. That could be solving their concern head on or giving them the tools to solve the problem. It can even be acknowledging that the problem might not be solvable. Something these paths all have in common? None of them work unless you first hear and understand the concern. Here’s how I approach these conversations: 1️⃣ Resist the urge to jump to conclusions or offer fixes right away. Let them tell you the full story. 2️⃣ Thank them for coming to you and validate their effort to speak up. 3️⃣ Repeat back what you’ve heard to ensure you fully understand the concern. 4️⃣ Ask if they have ideas for a solution and offer feedback rather than suggesting a solution yourself. Even if you can’t give them what they’re asking for, how you handle the conversation will set the tone for your culture. The goal isn’t just solving the immediate issue—it’s making sure they feel comfortable raising the next one. #leadership #management #teamculture

If your one-on-ones are primarily status updates, you're missing a massive opportunity to build trust, develop talent, and drive real results. After working with countless leadership teams across industries, I've found that the most effective managers approach 1:1s with a fundamentally different mindset... They see these meetings as investments in people, not project tracking sessions. Great 1:1s focus on these three elements: 1. Support: Create space for authentic conversations about challenges, both professional and personal. When people feel safe discussing real obstacles, you can actually help remove them. Questions to try: "What's currently making your job harder than it needs to be?" "Where could you use more support from me?" 2. Growth: Use 1:1s to understand aspirations and build development paths. People who see a future with your team invest more deeply in the present. Questions to explore: "What skills would you like to develop in the next six months?" "What parts of your role energize you most?" 3. Alignment: Help team members connect their daily work to larger purpose and meaning. People work harder when they understand the "why" behind tasks. Questions that create alignment: "How clear is the connection between your work and our team's priorities?" "What part of our mission resonates most with you personally?" By focusing less on immediate work outputs and more on the human doing the work, you'll actually see better performance, retention, and results. Check out my newsletter for more insights here: https://lnkd.in/ei_uQjju #executiverecruiter #eliterecruiter #jobmarket2025 #profoliosai #resume #jobstrategy #leadershipdevelopment #teammanagement

“This is my sixth manager in two years.” Sound familiar? That’s why the worst thing a new manager can do is take over the helm of the ship too quickly before they know what direction their team wants to go. Then, wonder why they’re experiencing disengagement, coaching resistance, missed quotas, team conflict and trust issues.   Making changes before understanding the current team landscape and dynamics will set you and your team up for failure.   Instead of assuming what would help, start by having a level-setting conversation so you can learn about each person’s goals, work-style, strengths, opportunities for coaching,  and how they want to be managed, motivated even held accountable. Here are several questions to open up the conversation. Remember, the questions flow both ways.   1-Let's start by sharing a little about ourselves, our background, current role.   2-How have you been managed before? 3-What worked? What didn't work? 4-How often did you meet with your manager for one-to-one coaching sessions that focused solely on your agenda? What was your experience? 5-What did you find most valuable in terms of how your manager supported you around achieving your goals? Least valuable? 6-What can I do that would make me your ideal manager?   7-How can I be your accountability partner so I’m supporting you around your goals and commitments in a way that sounds supportive and not like I’m micromanaging you? 8-Can you please share your expectations around how you want to (be managed, coached, work together, collaborate, communicate, handle problems, create mutual accountability, build a trusted relationship, etc.)? #leadership #salesmanagement #coaching