Building trust as a young supply chain professional

Trust doesn't come from your accomplishments. It comes from quiet moves like these: For years I thought I needed more experience, achievements, and wins to earn trust. But real trust isn't built through credentials. It's earned in small moments, consistent choices, and subtle behaviors that others notice - even when you think they don't. Here are 15 quiet moves that instantly build trust 👇🏼 1. You close open loops, catching details others miss ↳ Send 3-bullet wrap-ups after meetings. Reliability builds. 2. You name tension before it gets worse ↳ Name what you sense: "The energy feels different today" 3. You speak softly in tense moments ↳ Lower your tone slightly when making key points. Watch others lean in. 4. You stay calm when others panic, leading with stillness ↳ Take three slow breaths before responding. Let your calm spread. 5. You make space for quiet voices ↳ Ask "What perspective haven't we heard yet?", then wait. 6. You remember and reference what others share ↳ Keep a Key Details note for each relationship in your phone. 7. You replace "but" with "and" to keep doors open ↳ Practice "I hear you, and here's what's possible" 8. You show up early with presence and intention ↳ Close laptop, turn phone face down 2 minutes before others arrive. 9. You speak up for absent team members ↳ Start with "X made an important point about this last week" 10. You turn complaints into possibility ↳ Replace "That won't work" with "Let's experiment with..." 11. You build in space for what really matters ↳ Block 10 min buffers between meetings. Others will follow. 12. You keep small promises to build trust bit by bit ↳ Keep a "promises made" note in your phone. Track follow-through. 13. You protect everyone's time, not just your own ↳ End every meeting 5 minutes early. Set the standard. 14. You ask questions before jumping to fixes ↳ Lead with "What have you tried so far?" before suggesting solutions. 15. You share credit for wins and own responsibility for misses ↳ Use "we" for successes, "I" for challenges. Watch trust grow. Your presence speaks louder than your resume. Trust is earned in these quiet moments. Which move will you practice first? Share below 👇🏼 -- ♻️ Repost to help your network build authentic trust without the struggle 🔔 Follow me Dr. Carolyn Frost for more strategies on leading with quiet impact

“I missed a major deadline. The client wasn’t happy. The team looked at me differently.” That’s what a young manager confessed to me over coffee. He’d led a key project that flopped — and suddenly, the trust he’d built with his team and boss felt like it evaporated overnight. He said something that stuck with me: “It’s like I went from promising leader to liability… in one mistake.” That’s the scary part about leadership when you’re early in your career. So, what do you do after the fall? Here’s what I told him: 1. Manage expectations like your credibility depends on it (because it does). You already owned the mistake. Good. But now, over-communicate. Set crystal-clear expectations for your next project: ↳ What’s the exact deliverable? ↳ Who are you building it for? ↳ When is each piece due? ↳ How will you keep stakeholders in the loop? Ambiguity is where mistakes breed. Clarity is where trust rebuilds. 2. Under-promise. Over-deliver. Tempted to prove yourself with a moonshot? Don’t. It backfires more often than not. Instead: ↳ Set realistic targets. ↳ Build in buffers. ↳ Deliver slightly more than what was promised. It’s not flashy, but it works. 3. Win small. Win fast. Credibility doesn’t return all at once. You earn it inch by inch. Focus on quick, visible wins that move the project forward and help the team, not just your image. Examples: ↳ Found a process gap? Propose a fix. ↳ Need support? Make a solid business case for additional resources. ↳ Don’t wait till the final deadline — share milestones early. Momentum builds belief. 4. Reassess. Periodically. Finished your comeback project? Great. But rebuilding trust = consistency over time. ↳ Every 2–3 months, ask: ↳ Am I gaining back confidence from stakeholders? ↳ Are my deliverables exceeding expectations? Do I feel like I trust myself again? If the answers aren’t clear — maybe it’s not just you. Some environments don’t allow for second chances. If that’s the case, find one that does. The truth is: Credibility is hard to earn. Harder to regain. But absolutely possible — if you approach it with humility, clarity, and strategy. We’ve all dropped the ball at some point. The question is: What do you do after the bounce? — PS: I write about leadership, trust, and growing through setbacks every week. #leadership #careeradvice #trust #growthmindset #youngprofessionals

The day I finally understood how trust really works, everything changed for me as a CSM. In my first Customer Success role, our leader had us read a book before our team offsite: The Trusted Advisor. Short. Simple. Game-changing. Inside was something that flipped a switch for me, the Trust Equation: Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy / Self-Orientation For the first time, trust wasn’t a feeling, it was something I could build intentionally. So I made a move, and this changed how I worked with customers: I wrote each element of the equation into their account. And every engagement became a chance, an opportunity to build on trust with purpose. Here’s what that looked like in real life ✅ Credibility Know your stuff. Speak with clarity. Bring insights, not just product updates. → When a customer asks how to achieve a specific outcome in your product and you clearly walk them through 2-3 workflows that get them there. → When they ask, “What are other customers like us doing?” and you give just the right amount of relevant context and detail. ✅ Reliability Do what you say you’ll do. No surprises. No dropped balls. → You follow through after every meeting. → You send the recap. → You make the intro. → You deliver on that one thing they asked for, even if it seemed minor. ✅ Intimacy Be human. Build connection. Care about what matters to them. → You remember their kid’s name. → You know they’re prepping for a board meeting next week and ask how it’s going. → You lead with empathy, not agendas. 🚫 Self-Orientation Don’t make it about you. Ever. → You don’t flex your product knowledge to sound smart, you share what helps them win. → You don’t push your goals, you stay focused on theirs. Every CSM wants trusted relationships. Not every CSM builds them on purpose. This equation gave me a new level of intention. What’s one small way you can build more trust? ________________________ 📩 If you liked this post, you'll love The Journey. Head over to my profile and join the thousands of CS professionals who are along for the ride as I share stories and learnings going from CSM to CCO.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗜𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗠𝘆 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺. I can never forget hearing those words from a key supplier early in my procurement career. We had a product delivery issue, and their response was blunt. The impact was not just the cost 💰 But reputational damage and a lot of operational chaos. At that time, I thought Why is this happening? But looking back now, after 16 years in procurement I see the root cause clearly: A Fractured Supplier Relationship. 𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆: Years ago, I worked on a resourcing project Where we sourced with a supplier solely based on pricing due to cost pressure. Communication was minimal, expectations weren’t formally aligned, and trust was non-existent. When challenges arose (and they always do) Instead of collaborating on solutions, it became a blame game. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁? 🚨 Delayed timelines and threat to customer line supportability. 💸 Expedited Premium freight costs that wiped out our “savings.” 🛠️ Resources diverted to firefighting instead of innovate. 💡 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜’𝘃𝗲 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗱: That experience taught me the hidden costs of poor supplier relationships: ➡️ Lost Agility: Without trust, suppliers are less willing to adapt during crises. ➡️ Higher Total Cost: Low price doesn’t mean low cost. ➡️ Missed Innovation: Strong suppliers often bring ideas to the table, but only when they feel valued. Now I’ve shifted my focus from just negotiating contracts to building partnerships. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗹𝘂𝗱𝗲𝘀: 💎 Investing time in supplier development. 💎Ensuring open communication channels. 💎Recognizing their wins as much as ours. Today, my best supplier relationships feel more like strategic alliances. When problems arise, we tackle them together because trust has already been built. 🚀 𝗠𝘆 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗶𝗰𝗲: Whether you’re in procurement or supply chain, don’t overlook the power of relationships. They aren’t just suppliers; they are your partners in success. 📢 Have you ever faced hidden costs from poor supplier relationships? How did you turn it around?

When coaching professionals who ask, “How do I build trust with senior leadership and create a strong ally network?” my advice always centers on one powerful principle: focus on building genuine trust. First, it’s not just about getting in front of senior leaders; it’s about understanding what matters to them. Show care by learning their priorities, understanding the problems they are working to solve, and being genuinely interested in their vision. This is where trust begins. People often wonder, “How do I even reach them?” Start by showing up. This might mean speaking up during a town hall, even when it feels daunting. Ask a well-thought-out, curious question that shows you’ve done your homework. It might be something simple, but it demonstrates your interest in the issues that matter to them - and that builds respect and trust. If you have expertise, share it. If you don’t, show curiosity. Trust isn’t built overnight, but it starts with showing that you care about what they care about. Remember, networking is more than visibility-it’s building meaningful connections based on trust.

"I thought I was crushing it." That's what Tyler told me last month. VP title. Great reviews. Strong team results. But he kept getting blindsided. Big decisions made without him. His ideas ignored until someone else said them. Meetings about his department... without him. The brutal truth? Being good at your job doesn't guarantee you won't be sidelined. I've seen brilliant people become invisible because they assumed competence was enough. They waited to be noticed. They let their work do the talking. But here's what I've learned: You can't just work in isolation and expect to build trust. To build trust, you have to involve them. Tyler started doing three things differently: He began every project by asking stakeholders what success looked like to them. He asked how his plans could be stronger and actually took action on their feedback. And he started asking "Your thoughts?" after sharing his ideas. Now, more people have been asking for his input. And they’re actually responding to his emails with substance. Because being unignorable isn't about talent. It's about being competent AND trusted. That's where influence lives.

I had a conversation with a 26-year-old who had been given the advice not to build relationships with coworkers or others in his industry that could be competitors. The advice he received from a mentor was that you are in competition with people … And you can’t trust them. I disagree with that suggestion and believe the opposite is true for young professional professionals (actually my advice goes for people of all ages)… if you’re thinking about the long-term, you need to need to network, network, network…. but let’s go a layer deeper. Building relationships in your industry and your community isn’t about collecting business cards or followers. It’s about investing in yourself for the long game. Here are three reasons to start early: 1. All opportunities come from people – always. Jobs, clients, introductions, mentors, partnerships… they rarely come from cold applications or online likes, links, shares, or follows. They come from trust. And trust takes time. If you want doors to open in your 30s, 40s, and beyond, the time to build meaningful, mutually beneficial relationships is right from the start. 2. Reputation grows while you’re not looking. How people talk about you when you’re not in the room matters (and yes, people in your company and your industry. Do talk about you behind your back). Get involved. Show up. Volunteer. Help others succeed. The compound interest of your reputation starts accruing the moment you engage. 3. Community anchors you when things get hard. Careers aren’t straight lines. There will be pivots, setbacks, and reinventions. There will be recessions and layoffs that happen. Having a network of trusted peers, colleagues, and mentors makes the tough times survivable…. and the good times even better. When I speak to organizations that have young professionals… I am very clear that they need to think about how and why they” choose . Show up. Be curious. Give more than you take. It all adds up. #HumanInteraction #NetworkingMatters #CareerGrowth #UncommonConnections